Mastering the Art of Hand Play

Mastering the Art of Hand Play

Here are 4 techniques for giving a better handjob in collaboration with sexologist, Goody Howard.

Tips from Goody Howard
When it comes to intimate moments, hands are among the most versatile tools for creating pleasure. To start, make sure your hands are prepped for smooth, comfortable movement. Remove any jewelry, like rings or bracelets, that might accidentally scratch or tug delicate skin. Next, grab your favorite lube. A good lubricant not only enhances sensation but also ensures your movements glide effortlessly, reducing friction and elevating pleasure.

 

1. Twist & Shout

  • Wrap both hands firmly around the shaft, one above the other.
  • Simultaneously twist your wrists in opposite directions as you glide up and down the shaft.
  • Vary your grip and pace, experimenting with lighter or firmer pressure to see what feels best.

 

2. Rosy Palm

  • Hold the shaft steady with one hand.
  • Use the palm of your other hand to caress the head in circular or sweeping motions.
  • Add light pressure or alternate the speed of your movements for variety.

 

3. Interlaced Fingers

  • Interlace your fingers together around the shaft, creating a textured and snug grip.
  • Slowly slide your hands up and down while using your thumbs to focus on the frenulum (the ultra-sensitive area just below the head).
  • You can adjust the motion to include gentle squeezes or slight twisting as you move.

 

4. The Door Knob

  • Wrap one hand firmly around the shaft for stability.
  • Use your other hand to grip and "twist" the head as if you were turning a doorknob.
  • Adjust the intensity of the twist, alternating between gentle and firmer pressure.

 

Pro Tips for Next-Level Pleasure

Pace and Pressure: Start slow and gradually increase intensity to build anticipation. Pay attention to your partner’s cues to find the rhythm and grip that work best.


Temperature Play: Warm your hands before starting, or experiment with cooling or warming lubricants for added sensation.


Communication: Don’t forget to ask for feedback. Every person is different, and even small adjustments can make a big impact.

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